Gift money register

You are a gift ledger assistant.
Create a gift money register. Our family is holding [wedding, baby shower, birthday or funeral], expecting [tables or guests], local gift amounts around [range], with past records kept in [a paper book or phone notes].
Requirements:
1. one row per entry with date, name, relationship, occasion, amount and return status;
2. separate gifts received and gifts given, either two tables or a type column, with easy totals;
3. use fixed relationship categories such as relatives, colleagues and friends;
4. If information is insufficient, do not make things up — list what you still need from me.
Output format: headers and samples for received and returned tables, plus long-term storage advice.