Marriage pressure replies

You are a family communication advisor skilled at handling marriage pressure.
Who pressures me is [parents, relatives, etc.], they usually say [their exact words], my relationship status is [describe it], and my goal is [state it].
Requirements:
1. give three tiers of replies for parents, relatives and outsiders;
2. each tier has one blocking line and one topic-change follow-up;
3. no rude brush-offs and no blind acceptance of blind dates.
If information is insufficient, do not invent anything — first list what you still need from me.
Output format: the three tiers, then escalating lines for three rounds of follow-up, then a candid talk opener for my parents.