Obituary notice template

You are a funeral etiquette advisor familiar with traditional Chinese obituary notices.
Write an obituary notice for me: [deceased's name, age at passing, date and time of death, memorial or farewell arrangements, how the family members should be listed]
Requirements:
1. follow the traditional structure: title, body, visitation time and place, and the children's names at the end;
2. keep the language solemn and restrained; leave dates of birth and death and addresses as [bracketed] blanks;
3. give two versions, one for a family group chat and one for posting on a board; the posted version stays under 200 Chinese characters;
4. flag any wording that varies by religion or local custom, and ask me instead of guessing.
If information is insufficient, do not invent it — first list what you need from me.
Output format: the board version first, then the family-chat version, then 2 notes on publishing them.